1. To Meet Demands Human Rights Instincts
Marriage is human nature. And a legitimate way to meet this need is by marriage contract (through the level of marriage), not by a dirty and disgusting, like the ways people today with dating, cohabiting, prostitution, adultery, lesbian, gay and others that has been distorted and forbidden by Islam.
2. Fortifying Morals For His Majesty
Messenger of Allaah Allaah be upon said:
"O, youth! Whoever among you capable to get married, then nikahlah, because marriage is much lower his gaze and further fortify the vulva (genitals). And whoever is unable, then let him fast, because fasting is to fortify themselves. "(Narrated by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An Nasa-i, Ad Darimi and AL Bayhaqi, from friends of Abdullah bin Mas'ud)
3. To Enforce Islamic Households
Mentioned in the Qur'an, that Islam justifies the existence of THALAQ (divorce), if the husband and wife are no longer able to enforce the limits of God
Kamis, 03 Maret 2011
TRICK-TRICK TO FAMILY Sakinah
Religion Islam has provided a complete and detailed instructions on the issue of marriage. Starting from the suggestion married, how to choose an ideal mate, do khitbah (proposal), how to educate children, and provide a way out if there is chaos in the household, until the process nafaqah (giving a living) and the estate, all governed by Islamic detailed , detailed and clear.
Furthermore, to understand the concept of marriage in Islam, then reference the most correct and legitimate is the Qur'an and Sunnah Ash or higher in accordance with the understanding Salafush Salih. Based on this reference, we will gain clarity about aspects of marriage, as well as several irregularities and shifts in the value of marriage that occurred in our society.
Furthermore, to understand the concept of marriage in Islam, then reference the most correct and legitimate is the Qur'an and Sunnah Ash or higher in accordance with the understanding Salafush Salih. Based on this reference, we will gain clarity about aspects of marriage, as well as several irregularities and shifts in the value of marriage that occurred in our society.
Proof Women More Like MOLESTER, Agree?
So far, the man regarded as a prickly affair overdo. The latest news, now even more women who had an affair. Typically, a woman having an affair with a male authority. Nah! Infidelity in men over the years, considered to have become commonplace. Infidelity and men are two sides of the coin. "He (man) can not lock his pants," so the sentence normally appear. Or, "He was never happy with what he has at home."
Is it true?
Presumably, the myth lives. A recent survey showed that four in 10 women having an affair. Compare with the men: only three out of 10.
A study can be accounted for Opera North. They conducted a poll of 3,000 adults. They found one in five women feel the thrill of the affair. One in four women chasing foreign men who attract their attention.
Besides, one of four women said they could not bear having sex with men who wear uniforms. And, one in five women having an affair with the people in power.
Women prefer having an affair when it began to get bored with their relationship. And, one in five women having an affair says it only ever happens when they drink alcoholic beverages too much.
There is another reason she was having an affair. They think life is too short. And, they never believe in monogamous relationships. At least, over one in 10 women admit it.
Infidelity in a long time, it presents a high risk. And, one third of the affair for a long time, finally found a husband or friend of their lives.
After all, there are still a Questioning the results of this research. "Although this study of 3,000 women included the size, I think it should be noted about the research that used here. To assess this statistically, we need to know more about them, namely the questions that should be relevant. For example, how the background of their relationship, "says Leila Collins, a psychotherapist.
According to him, one thing that this research is shown along with the freedom and equality of women, there are also more opportunities for women to not be trusted.
"The view that as long as there are men who gather or out of work and unable to maintain eye. Now women have equal opportunities in almost all areas. So they have the same opportunities to meet people other than their partner, "said Collins.
On the other hand, he saw the figures also show the dilemma faced by women in this present era. Sometimes the dilemma is to make them dissatisfied with her marital life.
"Now, we work longer, try raising children, and have a crazy social life. Maybe it was too much so we do not have enough time with partners or people we love, "he said again.
Even so, according to him, flirting is not something that could not hurt. What's wrong is if you bring it to the next level.
According to research, the woman who almost had an affair, or had an affair, never to do it by accident just like that. There is always a problem in the relations of life which causes it to happen.
"What is sexual, emotional, or feeling of need a bit of fun, is the answer to this question before the affair started," he said.
Collins also gives advice: if you ever had an affair, sit quietly, do the contemplation before deciding to admit to his own partner. "If we think should deal with it and could continue, try it. Recognition is not always the answer, "he said as well.
Is it true?
Presumably, the myth lives. A recent survey showed that four in 10 women having an affair. Compare with the men: only three out of 10.
A study can be accounted for Opera North. They conducted a poll of 3,000 adults. They found one in five women feel the thrill of the affair. One in four women chasing foreign men who attract their attention.
Besides, one of four women said they could not bear having sex with men who wear uniforms. And, one in five women having an affair with the people in power.
Women prefer having an affair when it began to get bored with their relationship. And, one in five women having an affair says it only ever happens when they drink alcoholic beverages too much.
There is another reason she was having an affair. They think life is too short. And, they never believe in monogamous relationships. At least, over one in 10 women admit it.
Infidelity in a long time, it presents a high risk. And, one third of the affair for a long time, finally found a husband or friend of their lives.
After all, there are still a Questioning the results of this research. "Although this study of 3,000 women included the size, I think it should be noted about the research that used here. To assess this statistically, we need to know more about them, namely the questions that should be relevant. For example, how the background of their relationship, "says Leila Collins, a psychotherapist.
According to him, one thing that this research is shown along with the freedom and equality of women, there are also more opportunities for women to not be trusted.
"The view that as long as there are men who gather or out of work and unable to maintain eye. Now women have equal opportunities in almost all areas. So they have the same opportunities to meet people other than their partner, "said Collins.
On the other hand, he saw the figures also show the dilemma faced by women in this present era. Sometimes the dilemma is to make them dissatisfied with her marital life.
"Now, we work longer, try raising children, and have a crazy social life. Maybe it was too much so we do not have enough time with partners or people we love, "he said again.
Even so, according to him, flirting is not something that could not hurt. What's wrong is if you bring it to the next level.
According to research, the woman who almost had an affair, or had an affair, never to do it by accident just like that. There is always a problem in the relations of life which causes it to happen.
"What is sexual, emotional, or feeling of need a bit of fun, is the answer to this question before the affair started," he said.
Collins also gives advice: if you ever had an affair, sit quietly, do the contemplation before deciding to admit to his own partner. "If we think should deal with it and could continue, try it. Recognition is not always the answer, "he said as well.
a happy Marriage
Marriage is a form of merging of the two lovebirds into a single common purpose. And one purpose of marriage is to achieve lasting happiness with a spouse. However, the road to happiness is not always smooth. Many obstacles, challenges and problems that sometimes thwart the course of the household. Well, how do we anticipate that our household palace from shaking? Here are 10 tips to a happy marriage.
1. Love Love is a powerful energy to develop and refine your personality and your husband. Love will help remove all the obstacles that arise on the way home. Marriage is built without a foundation of love really is nonsense. Although not the only requirement, the love was instrumental in building a lasting marriage. Thus, love in marriage is something that is absolute and should be.
2. Faith Love it certainly is not enough to create a happy marriage. The principle of faith to choose a husband who is also one of the key in achieving domestic bliss. Indeed, many couples of different religions which also can lead happy marriage. However, you should not think lightly about this one. Can-can, eventually you and your husband own way, according to their faith. Not to mention the presence of children. The issue of what religion adopted child will often also triggered a long debate.
3. Mutual trust Without mutual trust between husband and wife, marriage would not have run smoothly. Mutual trust will get you in feeling safe and comfortable. The key, do not waste your husband's trust. Wives do not need to suspect the husband, and vice versa, the husband is also no need to suspect the wife. Building mutual trust is also a manifestation of adult love.
4. Sex Marriage without sex can be spelled like vegetables without salt. Bland. Yes, sex is necessary. And although sexual activity is actually aiming to obtain offspring, but humans have also developed a sex to achieve happiness with her life partner. Principles of good sex is the openness and honesty in expressing your individual needs. In essence, sexual activity is to satisfy each other, but need to avoid the impression of exploiting the couple. Pleasurable sexual activities will have a positive impact for both of you.
5. Economic Most of the time in the family today, especially young couples urban areas, is to make a living. That is, no denying that economic factors can not be underestimated. Imagine what would happen if the household is not supported by adequate economic strut. Set up correctly economy will also give you a feeling secure and happy.
6. The presence of children Children are a divine gift that is not terkirakan value. Marriage without the presence of children often trigger a separate issue. Many families or couples that are difficult to get children and desperately try and seek to have offspring. The presence of a child also makes the husband and wife have an attachment and responsibility for raising, caring and loving together 7. Avoid third-party Marriage life is its own autonomy, which should not be interfered with by others, let alone a third party. The presence of a third party intervene or influence and into the family authority, could create a disaster for the household. Many examples of families that were destroyed because of a third party come play in it. Whether the intervention in-law, brother-in-law, lover lover, neighbor, and so forth.
8. Keeping romance Sometimes, couples who had been long enough to build palace household no longer care about this one. No words of praise, dinner together, even the attention of any such expensive items. In fact, keeping the romance required by married couples until whenever, not just when they were dating. Just to give flowers, kissed his cheek, holding hands, praising each other, or a stroll along the romantic places will re-sparking the love of your life partner. 9. Communication Communication is also one of the pillars langgengnya husband-wife relationship. Loss of communications means also lost one of the pillars of the house tanga. How might your relationship with your husband will be smooth if you are reluctant to even say hello. If the household is a car, then communication is the wheels. Without it, it's impossible to run the household.
10. Mutual praise and attention Although trivial, praise or attention for most influencing her husband, and vice versa. Uncomplimentary remark will further strengthen the bonds of husband and wife. Without praise or attention, might be that there is only criticizing and demeaning each other. Your partner will feel appreciated. Praising fees or expenses not need expensive, really. What is needed is sincerity and love for the husband.
1. Love Love is a powerful energy to develop and refine your personality and your husband. Love will help remove all the obstacles that arise on the way home. Marriage is built without a foundation of love really is nonsense. Although not the only requirement, the love was instrumental in building a lasting marriage. Thus, love in marriage is something that is absolute and should be.
2. Faith Love it certainly is not enough to create a happy marriage. The principle of faith to choose a husband who is also one of the key in achieving domestic bliss. Indeed, many couples of different religions which also can lead happy marriage. However, you should not think lightly about this one. Can-can, eventually you and your husband own way, according to their faith. Not to mention the presence of children. The issue of what religion adopted child will often also triggered a long debate.
3. Mutual trust Without mutual trust between husband and wife, marriage would not have run smoothly. Mutual trust will get you in feeling safe and comfortable. The key, do not waste your husband's trust. Wives do not need to suspect the husband, and vice versa, the husband is also no need to suspect the wife. Building mutual trust is also a manifestation of adult love.
4. Sex Marriage without sex can be spelled like vegetables without salt. Bland. Yes, sex is necessary. And although sexual activity is actually aiming to obtain offspring, but humans have also developed a sex to achieve happiness with her life partner. Principles of good sex is the openness and honesty in expressing your individual needs. In essence, sexual activity is to satisfy each other, but need to avoid the impression of exploiting the couple. Pleasurable sexual activities will have a positive impact for both of you.
5. Economic Most of the time in the family today, especially young couples urban areas, is to make a living. That is, no denying that economic factors can not be underestimated. Imagine what would happen if the household is not supported by adequate economic strut. Set up correctly economy will also give you a feeling secure and happy.
6. The presence of children Children are a divine gift that is not terkirakan value. Marriage without the presence of children often trigger a separate issue. Many families or couples that are difficult to get children and desperately try and seek to have offspring. The presence of a child also makes the husband and wife have an attachment and responsibility for raising, caring and loving together 7. Avoid third-party Marriage life is its own autonomy, which should not be interfered with by others, let alone a third party. The presence of a third party intervene or influence and into the family authority, could create a disaster for the household. Many examples of families that were destroyed because of a third party come play in it. Whether the intervention in-law, brother-in-law, lover lover, neighbor, and so forth.
8. Keeping romance Sometimes, couples who had been long enough to build palace household no longer care about this one. No words of praise, dinner together, even the attention of any such expensive items. In fact, keeping the romance required by married couples until whenever, not just when they were dating. Just to give flowers, kissed his cheek, holding hands, praising each other, or a stroll along the romantic places will re-sparking the love of your life partner. 9. Communication Communication is also one of the pillars langgengnya husband-wife relationship. Loss of communications means also lost one of the pillars of the house tanga. How might your relationship with your husband will be smooth if you are reluctant to even say hello. If the household is a car, then communication is the wheels. Without it, it's impossible to run the household.
10. Mutual praise and attention Although trivial, praise or attention for most influencing her husband, and vice versa. Uncomplimentary remark will further strengthen the bonds of husband and wife. Without praise or attention, might be that there is only criticizing and demeaning each other. Your partner will feel appreciated. Praising fees or expenses not need expensive, really. What is needed is sincerity and love for the husband.
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